B.M.F .....jk

I picked up some other RL things but ill post later

Things to remember:
-Things are usually cheaper "out of season"
-Quality > yea you know
-Thrift stores are great
-Be patient

Timing is Everything

In my 20 years of living I really believe that as important as it is to have action...timing is more important. There goes the saying "A day late and a dollar short" or "wrong place wrong time"...time seems to be the more important variable. In the first analogue even if you had the right amount you would still be a day LATE. In the second instance, its not so much being in the wrong place, its the fact that its the wrong time to be there.

I look back at a few situations in my life and thing "wow timing was so off with that" Just to name a few, the situation with the girl in Connecticut, well actually ever ex girlfriend honestly. VERY compatible people, just bad timing. I know know how to combat that. Whos to say its bad timing except for in hindsight. I have a laundry list of people who I met at the wrong time though. And I cant help but wonder what would happen if I was to be born 2 years earlier?..that would put me at a more equal age for either of my exes...would one of them have worked? Or would me being born 2 years earlier put a strain on my parents, were they READY at that time? ...who knows

but in retropsect, i believe that timing thus far has been perfect for my life. Ive learned ALOT of things. I know for a fact that if I found myself in/around Connecticut from 07-09 my life would be COMPLETELY different probably for the worse....ahaha but good at the moment dont get me wrong.

but after reading a post from the boy Jozen(UntillIGetMarried.com) I believe that there ARE infact people you should have never fallen for. What if with the creation of the internet making the world smaller, you mistakenly meet people you shouldnt have met? I know without the internet I wouldnt know nearly as many people...including my ex. What if i clouded my life with people who shouldnt have been there?...only due to technology. hmmm crazy right?

But back to timing, I do believe that every relationship ive had has failed dude to timing..
1- my immaturity in regards to my perspective
1.5- lol she was young...im good on that
2- her NEED for a husband, and my NEED to be a college student and be free
2.5- by the time she was able to commit id lost interest
3- she was focused more on rekindling a relationship with her mother than me
4- no clue to be quite honest

Easy

Aside from being angry, being ignorant has the be an easy second for easiest state of being.Ignorance is a 2 part thing though. Those who dont know but refuse to know better. Also those who make generalizations based on less than sufficient evidence. Girls who say "guys suck" or americans who say, " Muslims are crazy". I dont know where this post will go but i'd just like to convey my hatred for lack of knowledge and opinions based on that. Its easy to be ignorant, thats WHY alot of people are that way, which sucks. I hate that people take the easy way out of life, and perpetuate being BASIC...

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[Disclaimer] Please hold all opinions, I don’t want them


Why are you living?
Is the pursuit of live your motivation?
Why not Death?
Instead of living for Life you live to avoid Death?
Why?
You don’t want to die yet you have no reason to live?
Why are you afraid to die if the afterlife promises our true happiness?
I won’t include scriptures...
Everybody wants to go to heaven but NO one wants to die, word to Andre 3000
How is that?

I toyed with actually verbalizing this for a while...but...

I. Am. Not. Afraid. Of. Death. Or. Dying.

Not to marginalize the gift of life, but I refuse to live afraid of anything. Fuck terrorists, my life moves on. Fuck disease, I’ll live life till my last day. Fuck negativity, because your words are only effective for as long as it takes you to formulate them.... There...and GONE.

If you truly do believe in an afterlife, then why are you so afraid of ending the earthly life?...serious question

...so really and truly, Don’t mind me, I'm just passing through

Acceptance

Vintage Levi's Denim

Vintage Levi's Denim Jacket( ebay $30)
RL Bear Tee($15)
Banana Republic pants($5 from Goodwill)
Nike "Clerks" Air Max 90s($150 ISS)


Kanye West, David Beckham and Zac Efron are really consistent with the denim jacket....I have my eye on the new Levis trucker denim jacket next. I really like the concept of denim jackets, it just sucks that Im in Florida when it doesnt really get cold enough for a denim jacket. Thankfully I go to college in North Florida when its cosistenly 30-15 degreesfrom january to march! Still have a ways to go till I build the confidence for "double denim" though






ranger boots and classic all stars coming soon...

The Life Style

Modern Day Lo-Life

Todays pick up


"..same dam LO sweater, times is ruff and tuff like leather"- The Chef


Lifshitz himself


92 Olympic Shit


The Cookie Boot



If you know what this is, then we can be friends

What I would tell my daughter

Unbiased forethought advice to the best of my 20 year old-senior-in-college-ability. Truth is truth no matter your gender, this advice is universal.

-People have a skewed view of what they want.
--Despite what Usher says(if you even know who he is, LOVE is not made in the club, never was and never will be. You are worth more than a few dinner dates, empty promises and a social network compliment. You want they guy who is with you because he sees that with you by his side, his life has just now gotten better.


-You can't have a GOOD relationship not knowing what one is..
--Ill lead by example with your MOTHER(not my baby mama but MY WIFE)

-Insecurity of not wanting to be lonely and SETTLING with what is there, sparks the cycle of hurt people hurting others...
--Dont be afraid to be single, you have a GREAT circle of friends and family, a God who loves you, and besides, getting your education is your main concern(It better be). YOU are amazing, act like it. DO NOT settle, with the loser who isnt what you are looking for but there at the moment. NO!...absolutely NOT!
---Why fuck someone else up because YOU dont/never really cared about their feeling? Dont lead guys on please.. To all the people who have ever been hurt and GOT over it...I applaud you, these days it seems as though genuine love is counter-human nature. In the quest to go through life unaffected by others and living by the montra "i dont give a fuck"..when in all reality you do. I didnt raise a Robot, show emotion, the world will love to meet the real you

-Be MATURE
-- With maturity comes honesty and experience for handling situations. When someone hurts you, DONT retaliate. You ARE above that. As cliched as it is, "if you arent part of the solution you are part of the problem".See each situation for what it is. If someone wants to leave, LET them. Be the best young lady you can be, dont worry, just watch your mom, shes been doing it for years...

Lastly well not literally last but whatever, my daughter will understand what I mean. I really dont like hand writing, or typing and im getting lazy. Id rather just tell you in person, but yea. You are beautiful, HELL YEA!!..because you have my genes, though your mom may have added alittle :-X jk lmaoo. As a female YOU DONT NEED a guy to tell you that you are smart,attractive, or any other adjective without an explaination...ask him "WHY?". I hope that I can instill in you my independence, and humor about life. I hope you can pick up on the confidence, and values of your mother. I hope you realize the love that your mother and I share for YOU. I say this in all seriousness, but you will probably get hurt in life and I hope that I can be there to catch you. From your Brightest day to your darkest hour(trust me it wont last long), your dad will be your Knight in freshly ironed, Ralph Lauren-branded-armor. And despite how OLD you may think your mom and I are, WE WERE YOUNG ONCE! :-/ lmaoo

Unconditional Love,

Your Father
(im sure your mother will sign this but just know it was my idea)

ehh this is just alittle truth and story telling as I sit an talk to Juda...hope she feels better, hate to see her like this