Right by your self

I just don't understand how someone can feel that proving a point is more important than solving the problem. A wise woman once said something to the effect of, you keep tryna be right, and you'll be right by yourself... I don't know what you're tryin to prove but a relationship is two human beings, fuck the right and the wrong, there's a person here and your arguments mean nothing if you've lost the other person. This is life, this is emotion...grow up... Realize the only winner is the person who still has someone to argue with