" What you wont do, another person will"
...on the surface this quote essentially gets at the fact that people have options. True..options are great. But in the context of a relationship, ones actions should not be dictated by the available options of their significant other. Sadly this is often advice given for women who arent open minded in the bed room and guys who dont...well you know reciprocate. Aside from the uninteresting references that deserve no more than a passing "LOL" i believe this is one of the worse pieces of advice one can give.
...i mean "cool story bro" you got options, im pretty sure we all do....but YOURE here, dealing with this situation..... so your options are obviously less attractive in your mind.
In addition, ones actions should never be influenced by the fear of someone leaving. If someone wants to leave, please let them. Id rather you care about me for who I AM, not because i'm the logical option. As much as I would like to call myself the best option, there will always be someone better, slicker, funnier, more good looking, with better sex etc.
I swear if my girl ever told me "what you wont do, someone else will" I'd tell her to GTFO...
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Push for Anarchy
I propose, that the minute, second, instance, laws were enacted is the same minute, second, instance, that man stopped living...
Carnivore
One farmer says to me, "You cannot live on vegetable food solely, for it furnishes nothing to make bones with"; and so he religiously devotes a part of his day to supplying his system with the raw material of bones; walking all the while he talks behind his oxen, which, with vegetable-made bones, jerk him and his lumbering plow along in spite of every obstacle.
Ignorance for growth
How can he remember well his ignorance- which his growth requires- who has so often to use his knowledge?
How can one be expected to progress if he doesnt know where he ought to be progressing towards? In a circle of friends where YOU are the smartest, you as a person will not grow. Living a routine, machine-like existence, one forgets his TRUE place in the world. Its easy to get caught up in the fast paced goings on. Allot time for introspection....always make time for leisure, and never let go of your individuality...
How can one be expected to progress if he doesnt know where he ought to be progressing towards? In a circle of friends where YOU are the smartest, you as a person will not grow. Living a routine, machine-like existence, one forgets his TRUE place in the world. Its easy to get caught up in the fast paced goings on. Allot time for introspection....always make time for leisure, and never let go of your individuality...
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Words I never said
i wanted a future
I loved this little face that she would make when she was confused
I know she didnt know that I loved her just the way she is...
I never told her that i would never be ashamed to have her name tied to mine or vice versa
It didnt matter, short hair or long...and even with her nerdy glasses on that she was still amazing...
The fact that i love how opinionated and dam stubborn she is....she will never know
I will never get to tell her that, if her parents disapprove of me, that I would always be respectful to them... because any 2 individuals who could produce a woman so extraordinary atleast deserve me being cordial
Its just some shit thats been on my mind, foreal, the fact that there is so much that id love to say to her
....it just sucks when you know she wouldnt even want to hear it
I loved this little face that she would make when she was confused
I know she didnt know that I loved her just the way she is...
I never told her that i would never be ashamed to have her name tied to mine or vice versa
It didnt matter, short hair or long...and even with her nerdy glasses on that she was still amazing...
The fact that i love how opinionated and dam stubborn she is....she will never know
I will never get to tell her that, if her parents disapprove of me, that I would always be respectful to them... because any 2 individuals who could produce a woman so extraordinary atleast deserve me being cordial
Its just some shit thats been on my mind, foreal, the fact that there is so much that id love to say to her
....it just sucks when you know she wouldnt even want to hear it
I dont even know...
I dont even now where my life is headed
i dont even know what im doing
ive made my mistakes..and ive over analyzed the situation
Ive partially become what I didnt want to become
im THAT guy in my mind that the 2009 me didnt want to become
aside from school the past year of my life has been horrible
Ive lost the only girl who I genuinely loved
I broke someone elses heart
made life altering mistakes due to MY OWN lack of good judgement
im depressed AF (at the moment)...
the sad part is that i honestly dont care, about too much....
I blame myself for the this turn in life, but whatever, its behind me
people ask me "are you ok?" " how are you?"...and i lie, I know they dont want to hear it
Too often people come to me for happiness and advice, and at the moment Its a struggle
I rarely talk my family because i cant even really face them, i know they are disappointed in me....
*sigh*
....
i dunno
it is, in fact what it is...
and the lamest part about all of this is that this is the most honest ive been with myself in a while
i dont even know what im doing
ive made my mistakes..and ive over analyzed the situation
Ive partially become what I didnt want to become
im THAT guy in my mind that the 2009 me didnt want to become
aside from school the past year of my life has been horrible
Ive lost the only girl who I genuinely loved
I broke someone elses heart
made life altering mistakes due to MY OWN lack of good judgement
im depressed AF (at the moment)...
the sad part is that i honestly dont care, about too much....
I blame myself for the this turn in life, but whatever, its behind me
people ask me "are you ok?" " how are you?"...and i lie, I know they dont want to hear it
Too often people come to me for happiness and advice, and at the moment Its a struggle
I rarely talk my family because i cant even really face them, i know they are disappointed in me....
*sigh*
....
i dunno
it is, in fact what it is...
and the lamest part about all of this is that this is the most honest ive been with myself in a while
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Happy New Year
Starting this year off with random fly shit
LETSFUCKINGO!
J.Crew
Burberry
Banana Republic
Sperry
LETSFUCKINGO!
J.Crew
Burberry
Banana Republic
Sperry
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