The Life Style

Modern Day Lo-Life

Todays pick up


"..same dam LO sweater, times is ruff and tuff like leather"- The Chef


Lifshitz himself


92 Olympic Shit


The Cookie Boot



If you know what this is, then we can be friends

What I would tell my daughter

Unbiased forethought advice to the best of my 20 year old-senior-in-college-ability. Truth is truth no matter your gender, this advice is universal.

-People have a skewed view of what they want.
--Despite what Usher says(if you even know who he is, LOVE is not made in the club, never was and never will be. You are worth more than a few dinner dates, empty promises and a social network compliment. You want they guy who is with you because he sees that with you by his side, his life has just now gotten better.


-You can't have a GOOD relationship not knowing what one is..
--Ill lead by example with your MOTHER(not my baby mama but MY WIFE)

-Insecurity of not wanting to be lonely and SETTLING with what is there, sparks the cycle of hurt people hurting others...
--Dont be afraid to be single, you have a GREAT circle of friends and family, a God who loves you, and besides, getting your education is your main concern(It better be). YOU are amazing, act like it. DO NOT settle, with the loser who isnt what you are looking for but there at the moment. NO!...absolutely NOT!
---Why fuck someone else up because YOU dont/never really cared about their feeling? Dont lead guys on please.. To all the people who have ever been hurt and GOT over it...I applaud you, these days it seems as though genuine love is counter-human nature. In the quest to go through life unaffected by others and living by the montra "i dont give a fuck"..when in all reality you do. I didnt raise a Robot, show emotion, the world will love to meet the real you

-Be MATURE
-- With maturity comes honesty and experience for handling situations. When someone hurts you, DONT retaliate. You ARE above that. As cliched as it is, "if you arent part of the solution you are part of the problem".See each situation for what it is. If someone wants to leave, LET them. Be the best young lady you can be, dont worry, just watch your mom, shes been doing it for years...

Lastly well not literally last but whatever, my daughter will understand what I mean. I really dont like hand writing, or typing and im getting lazy. Id rather just tell you in person, but yea. You are beautiful, HELL YEA!!..because you have my genes, though your mom may have added alittle :-X jk lmaoo. As a female YOU DONT NEED a guy to tell you that you are smart,attractive, or any other adjective without an explaination...ask him "WHY?". I hope that I can instill in you my independence, and humor about life. I hope you can pick up on the confidence, and values of your mother. I hope you realize the love that your mother and I share for YOU. I say this in all seriousness, but you will probably get hurt in life and I hope that I can be there to catch you. From your Brightest day to your darkest hour(trust me it wont last long), your dad will be your Knight in freshly ironed, Ralph Lauren-branded-armor. And despite how OLD you may think your mom and I are, WE WERE YOUNG ONCE! :-/ lmaoo

Unconditional Love,

Your Father
(im sure your mother will sign this but just know it was my idea)

ehh this is just alittle truth and story telling as I sit an talk to Juda...hope she feels better, hate to see her like this

Common- Again Remix (Feat. Faith Evans)

[Common]
I was told everything that happened, happened for a reason
And one man's forever might be God's season
Been in love so deep it was hard for me to breathe and
Knew somebody like me, but it was hard for me to see him
How he talked freedom, but didn't know if I was walkin it
You can find love but quickly get lost in it
I fostered it, knowing I'd love it for a while
Learing to be a man, but love it like a child
Somehow my light ya'll became my rain
Heartache and pain started to say my name
The game of fame and love stopped playing with me
People asked me "Did you see her pregnant on tv?"
When that rain came I tried to maintain as it drenched me
Now I ain't the same man, father or MC
I see where God sent me loud and clear
If not for the smiles and tears I wouldn't be here again

Febuary through June in song....

On a lighter note

This picture is a few years old, but I find myself coming back to it alot, theres just something about it....dont really know.


anyways Shout out to America, youre 200 and something years old and you dont look a day older than slavery

^get it?..got it?...GREAT

Random Thought 4:17am

who to blame?

The person who played with the Puzzle last?
The Puzzle its self?
The Puzzle maker?
The parents of the person who last played with the Puzzle?
Life?

hmmm

Chapters and Books

Life using the metaphor of a book, our lives are broken into chapters, starting/ending with important events. Speaking personally, from my own disappointments, LIFE GOES ON. You may find yourself at the end of one chapter and feel lost as hell. But remember just like when reading a book, all you have to do is turn the page. Though it may take alot in real life to metaphorically turn YOUR page. And the opposite, you may find yourself finishing a chapter and beyond excited to flip that page and see how the next chapter of your life will play out. Sometimes I lie in bed after finishing a chapter of a book and say, "dam let me just finish this tomorrow" or "let me give this a break". Needless to say some books are more are less interesting than others, and some parts of the story are a little harder or easier to read than others, even within the same book.

In my life ive only had one genuinely hard chapter to start. I metaphorically reread that previous chapter for about 2 months, while forgetting that My story ISNT over....Needless to say I am no longer there, Im about 2 chapters past that point now, and I love every moment of it. Just like with a book, sometimes you may find yourself rereading something, but like i said earlier, YOUR story isnt over, so act like it. =]

How many..

How many GOOD people do you think there are in the world?..I mean in regards to the oposite sex...The Immediate answer is probably "a few". But with anything in life I believe its a matter of circumstance. Walk with me on this please...

Its a MYTH!...
IT just depends on who you surround yourself with. As a college student, and God fearing young man, I surround myself with people who are somewhat like me. So when I hear people sayin "bruh all these hoes out here, where the good girls at?" I immediately think to myself, I most females that I know are actually VERY good girls. Beautiful, intellegent, jobs, musical sense, some are sneaker heads, some are very girly fashionistas and God fearing, and WILLING to cook for anyone for the most part.

Then as a reader, you may think well "why arent YOU in some commited 3, 4 year relationship if you know so many GREAT girls?" My answer is somewhat complex. Lets be real, EVERY girl isnt gonna want a relationship from me(honesty),and likewise I dont want a relationship from every girl(had to throw that in there). Timing is everything, at the wrong time the PERFECT girl, becomes the wrong girl..ill leave that as it is, if you get it great.To further add im EXTREMELY picky, and i believe thats the major reason. But this post isnt really about me actually..

I digress, knowing that there really are ALOT of beautiful,intelligent, hard working girls/guys out there, I ask you guys/girls....STOP SETTLING!

and as messed up as this sounds, I dont believe that there is just ONE person out there for any ONE person, its just a matter of timing. Sure you found the love of your life in high school, but I PROMISE you, if you guys broke up you would not spend the rest of your life alone and LOVE-less. Im telling you the truth...

To step away from relationships I want to end with this, There is soo much good in the world, regardless of what you may be shown on the news, or through the media. There are still good people,good food and beautiful landscapes to discover. Its just up to you to go out and Discover! The world is a beautful place, live life happily ever after please